Remember and forget

 Known human well-being sweet and sour, I have some insights. Yes ah, there are many things of life which, after a longer or shorter period of time is that we unconsciously forget; while certain things, whether after a lapse of How long will the final unforgettable. such as the unforgettable love, life catastrophe broke our hearts, hard-won achievements in the cause, the incredible life-changing, even bitter the edge of death.
life in many cases is not just a selection process but in a passive state, you do not no choice. you remember the music is not necessarily the best, forget not necessarily the most extraordinary pace. When one day, you remember things faster than forget , your life will start to decline, and become obvious to everyone. Now, with the accelerated pace of life, our daily contact with many people know a lot of people also forget that many people are in; each days, many things are happening, will forget many things. Perhaps it is this, our hearts to remember to adjust to a constantly and continuously to forget.
So, what should be we remember, what is We should forget it? has such a thought-provoking story, people aftertaste.
there was a wise man and a friend of his travels, came to a valley. wise too easy to fall in the cliff edge, thanks to friends fight make every effort to restrain him, he was not buried in the bottom. a wise man, after salvation, carved in stone this happened. Two people went to the beach, somehow went so far as to argue. friends huff, to the wise one face. wise man clutching his face, fever, said: I have to note it! is he found a stick, on the beach at low tide wrote a slap in the face of friends suffer through. Soon, the sea tide, and the wise words written in the sand to be flooded. friends blame him superfluous, the wise man said: I carved in stone are the things I fear forgot, and I wrote in the sand, then I fear the things to remember .
remember and forget is really a pair of poor cousin. Sometimes, we need to remember certain things are hard, but harder to forget something. For example: pain, distress, grievances, sadness and so on. In fact, life There are a lot of pain can be avoided. remember the happy, does not mean we'll be happy; forget the sad, does not mean we will not be sad. life, tears and laughter are always complementary. Sometimes more they want you happy, the more you sad mm Queer! Sometimes, you more they want to forget, to forget that some of the more clear to stay in the mind! as a woman, we should remember that:
1. treat yourself also treat others; learn alone, but also learn to give each other space.
2. learn to bear the pain. If anyone makes you embarrassed to say it, forgive him. some pain for silent forget.
3. avoid confrontation. quarrel with you will become a crazy lunatic, the same arguments with drunk. Loose lips sink ships, loose lips. some words for rotten in the heart.
4. to maintain their own individuality. conflict with can be patient, however, touch on matters of principle can not be accommodated. This is about a woman's dignity.
5. Institute of peaceful coexistence with the opposite sex. men and women from two different planets, understanding, long live!
life of the different, you never know what other people going through, just like other people do not understand you. It does not matter, remember your good. experience is most valuable asset in life, trying to make your life rich get up slowly. In the past People write the log, writing a love letter; now, people write a blog, write email. two different forms of writing, they are all recorded in the same content. If you do not keep a lot of things just as quickly disappeared over the general cloud and rain . If you remain, few years later, look back, you will have a completely strange feeling. People tend to remember more often sad sad, remember the pain of deception, but why forget the moment of happiness, forget that once shook hands and had a warm feeling. life is often the case!